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Little Things

Feet
Feet

When the world is spinning around me, when I want to pull my hair out with to many "To-Do's", when it feels like I'm being smashed together by the demands of my world, I try to get up 30-60 minutes earlier.  Why would I sacrifice sleep when I feel pressure from all sides of my being?  Well, it's because those tiny moments of the morning when the world is still, they are when I can best listen to myself, when I can get in touch with what I really need and want.

This morning I woke up early and got on my mat for a short personal practice in dim candle light.  Did you know that doing something small and special for your self like 10 sun salutations with a candle lit can help improve your mood?  It can immensely! After my sun salutations it was time for a hearty healthy breakfast, poached eggs on a piece of toast with provolone and a strong cup of coffee.  I took the time to finish my morning pages and not let myself feel rushed. 

This small practice, hearty breakfast and morning pages allowed me to start my day feeling centered.  It allowed me to feel like I was moving forward from a place of peace and not rush around like a crazy woman.  My morning at work was productive and lead with focus because I was grounded and able to focus on the goals of work.  It's lunch time now and I'm giving my brain a break, a rest from work instead of working through, well, I'll probably only take a half an hour but that's better than nothing.  I truly believe that (and research backs me up) giving your brain a rest makes you more productive, not less. 

How will you carve out time for yourself?  December is filled with hustle, bustle, year-end activities, goals and seasonal festivities.  Much to do, but that doesn't mean you can't be grounded, it doesn't mean you can't carve out time for yourself.  You will actually function better if you do.

Looking forward to hearing how you find time amidst the holiday and year-end bustle to take care of yourself. 

-lish

Meaningful Monday 06.17.13

Morning Coffee Last night I got the Sunday night blues and it turned into the Monday Funk.  Does that ever happen to you?

If I'm honest with myself I've had some huge life changes in the past two and a half months.  I'm doing my best to process them in the healthiest way's possible journaling, art therapy, yoga, and meditation.  Even when you are doing the healthy things you still have to process what's happening and it can be tough.

Processing the end of a relationship, buying a house, juggling the studio, my full-time job at Lincoln, and working on the artist's way.  These are really huge things.  Many of them are positive, but it's a lot.  I don't necessarily think I'm overwhelmed, but I know I must be with the Sunday blues and Monday funk I'm feeling.  I'm self-aware enough to know where it's coming from, and I know with time everything will work it's self out the way it's supposed to, but I'm feeling down.  Even though there is a ton of good happening, it's natural and ok to feel this way.

In an attempt to be true to the healing process this morning instead of rushing out the door for work trying to get to Lincoln at 7am like I normally do, I stopped.  I brewed a pot of french press coffee (truly the best kind of coffee).  I sat out on the back porch while a morning thunder-storm came through and I wrote my morning pages.  I didn't rush to get them done, I didn't just throw up on the pages today, I was intentional about what I was putting on paper, I was looking very closely at the blues I had last night and the funk I'm feeling this morning.  It made me realize just how much I'm in the thick of it.

This is what I can tell you for meaningful monday.

I know from past experience it's not healthy to ignore feelings, it's not healthy to try to rush past them.  You must work from a place of truth and be present for what comes up.  If you are going through something hard (and really who isn't?  Life always has a ton of challenges) take the time to stop and listen to what is going on in your body and your mind.  You might surprise yourself on what you find.  I've been insanely surprised with the feelings that have been coming up in my morning pages.  If you can today, make your self a pot of coffee, have a cup of tea, or if it's later in the day a little glass of wine, pull out your note-book and write out what you are feeling.  Say hello to your self on the pages.  You might be surprised what comes out.

Love from me to you, -lish

Being Present

Fully Present
Fully Present

The bright morning light is streaming through the eastern facing front of the studio.  I don't even need to have the lights on.  The studio is clean warm and inviting, and I'm getting ready to teach one of my favorite classes of the week (sunday morning power flow).  I'm too early as always, I'm never perfectly on time, always too early.  I've had my coffee and my breakfast, I'm prepared for the class to come, but I'm nervous (yes, I still get nervous to teach).  Life has taken an interesting turn these days and I'm having a hard time dealing with the uncertainty.  But is anything ever certain?  Probably not, but I like the facade of certainty.  I'm uncomfortable with ambiguity and I don't like to play the waiting game with anything.

Present like a pony tail palm
Present like a pony tail palm

What do you do with uncertainty that looks you in the face and asks "How are you going to move forward this time?"

To the uncertainty I say, "This time I've learned I need to sit back.  Sit my butt down on a cushion, close my eyes and watch my breath".  So that is what I do now, I know It won't help to be consumed by anxiety, it won't help to become an emotional train wreck.  You have to sit and watch your breath and notice the patterns of thinking that come up in the mind.  That is how you move forward, you move forward by surrendering to what is.  I know this to be true.  I also realize that all of this is easier said then done.  By telling you, I'm trying to re-enforce that what I did, the sitting, the being present was the best choice, to continue to remember to practice it myself, but also to show you why it might work for you too.

The sitting, keeps the anxiety at bay for awhile, but sometimes you need something else.

Later in the afternoon my yoga teacher alliance (or something along those lines) investigated the Niyamas.  Cleanliness, contentment, tapas, Self-study (I forgot to have us talk about the 5th Niyama, devotion to god! Whoops! Talk about an oversight).   Within the context of the Niyama's and the Yama's, meditation, and yoga I realize that for me  there is nothing more interesting than my own mind, and by trying to be a more present person I become a better friend, a better member of the community, a better pet owner, and the list goes on.  Self-study, contentment, enthusiasm, and  cleanliness (Yes, I'm still leaving out devotion to God, I'm not ready to explore that topic in depth on this blog) they aren't just the Niyama's they really do make you a better contributing member of society.

I remind myself of that when later in the day I start to feel like I'm going half crazy...

I have a thought, I wonder "how many times do I need to hit bottom before I'll float" with this thought I know I need to do something else. Something that is slightly close to a sitting practice, but maybe a bit more active.

Those times when I really want to scream and cry, you know, throw a full blown fit like a spoiled child, have you felt that way?  Have you ever in your adult life wanted to throw a full on tantrum?  I have, I know it's silly, it won't get me anywhere, but it would spend the restless energy coursing through my body.  It's in moments like that when I try to remember I can just go for a hike.  Never mind that I did a long, long bike ride on untrained legs yesterday, never mind that I taught a hard power flow class just this morning. I know a hike will do me more good than consuming myself with social media, drowning myself in food, drink or conversation.

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IMG_0800

I could feel that nervous energy of change creeping up into my neck.  Off I went for a hike by the lake, a hike when the pollen was thick in the sky and the green hugh hangs in the air and I need a benadryl just to leave the house, no never mind that , I just need to move.  Just like a seated meditation I find the rhyme of my breath with each step, but instead of leaving my focus there, I focus on the ground beneath me and my feat propelling me forward.  I focus now on the moment too, just like I do when I sit on my cushion for a seated mediation.  The only difference is now my focus is on moving forward without tripping over my own two feet (which I've been known to do more often than not).  Isn't that a metaphor for life?  How can you stay fully present, don't dwell  on the past don't worry about the future, just find happiness in the present moment despite the hot air, the clouds in the sky, the pollen clogging your lungs and the possibly of tripping?

I notice the squirels jumping around the woods teasing me like the distracting thoughts that race into my mind.  I notice the birds in the trees, the hum of a bee or could that have been a horse fly.  I notice the sounds of the mountain bikers on the trail not far off.  I notice, but for once I don't get caught up in the thoughts I'm just present, that tightness in my throat has disappeared.  It will be back, life is full of moments that make you want to scream, moments that make you feel like you've lost your grip on reality, moments of wanting to shake sense into people, but I have the tools to deal with it.  Not just deal with it, but to be fully present .  This yogic path really can help.

That's how you deal with change. that's how you deal with ambiguity, with emptiness, and even if it doesn't feel ok, it is, I promise. Just breath.